Are you concerned an elderly relative isn’t managing at home? Having a conversation with your loved ones about moving into aged care is never easy. Often, these conversations start when loved ones notice signs of decline, making them even more challenging.

So, how do you balance your loved ones’ needs with their wishes? How do you ensure that you aren’t overstepping the mark?

Thanks to the ABC, The Conversation and the Sydney Morning Herald we explore how to discuss aged care with loved ones.

If your mum or dad is hesitant about moving into an aged care facility, they are not alone. This is a common concern among many Australians, and it’s a shared challenge that many families face.
Most Australians want to stay in their own home and receive care there; this has always been the case. However, the COVID pandemic and the findings of the Aged Care Royal Commission have only increased some people’s reluctance to live in aged care.

Statistics show that most people choose to receive care in their home. More than 1 million Australians have care in their own home compared to 250,000 in residential aged care.

There are various services available that can ensure older Australians’ needs are met while enabling them to stay at home. For example, government-subsidised home care services can provide between 1 and 13 hours of support each week. You can access more support if you are a veteran or pay privately.

If you decide that an aged care facility is required, it is essential to do your research. Take your loved one to visit different facilities.

In some facilities, you can stay for three or four weeks while you decide whether or not you like the facility. This can help older people to clear up misconceptions they have about aged care facilities. If your parents visit a facility and don’t like it, there is the option to try another facility.

Respecting people’s autonomy is crucial at all ages. Unless an individual has lost the capacity to make decisions for themselves, they cannot be forced to move into a nursing home. If a decision is made to move into a nursing home, it should be a shared one.

It’s crucial to understand that older Australians have the right to stay at home, even if that decision comes with added risks. This right should be respected and upheld.

It’s key to understand why your loved one may be hesitant about moving into aged care. Older Australians often worry about losing control and independence, and the thought of strangers in their personal space can be unsettling. It is crucial that you are patient, compassionate, and empathetic to their concerns.

It’s important to remember that the decision to move into aged care is not made in a single conversation. Multiple discussions will be necessary to ensure all aspects are considered, and everyone’s concerns are addressed. You should start these conversations early while your parents are still mentally and physically able to make decisions. This also ensures you are prepared in advance if there is a waiting list for your preferred aged care facility.

Moving into aged care is a significant decision. It’s important to understand how your loved ones may be feeling about this transition and always be respectful of their wishes.

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