We all deserve to be treated with dignity and respect as we age. Sadly, as our population ages, elder abuse is becoming an increasing issue. Studies reveal up to 1 in 6 older Australians have fallen victim to elder abuse. Elder abuse is more common among those living in institutions such as aged care facilities than those living in the community.

 

So what is elder abuse and how do you reduce your risk of falling victim?

What is elder abuse?

According to the World Health Organisation, elder abuse refers to a single or repeated act—or a failure to act—within a relationship of trust, causing harm or distress to an older person. Elder abuse is commonly perpetrated by family members, neighbours, friends and paid carers.

What are some types of elder abuse?

Elder abuse can come in many forms. These include:

Emotional or psychological abuse

Emotional or psychological abuse can include pressuring older people into decisions, bullying, threats, and verbal abuse

Neglect

This occurs when older people’s basic needs are not met. Examples can include restricting access to food or medical care.

Financial abuse

Financial abuse involves using an older person’s finances or assets improperly or illegally.

Physical abuse

Physical abuse can include hitting, shoving or restraining an older person.

Social abuse

This involves isolating an older person from their family and friends.

How can you prevent elder abuse?

There are several ways you can reduce your risk of elder abuse, starting earlier in life, these include:

Planning for the future

As we age, it is critical to plan for the future. Think about your health, lifestyle, medical, financial and legal preferences before they become a major concern. Make these preferences known to family and friends. This can help to remove any uncertainty or ambiguity.

Having challenging conversations

Don’t put off having challenging conversations with your loved ones. Are you considering nominating a family member to make decisions on your behalf when you are no longer able? Check with them to make sure they are willing to take on this responsibility. Make sure you choose a person that will respect your wishes and will be able to communicate these to others.

Making decisions carefully, without pressure

Don’t feel pressured to make immediate decisions that you are not comfortable with. It is important that you  make informed decisions and seek independent advice if appropriate.

Confirming arrangements in writing

You should record key financial or lifestyle arrangements in writing to remove any ambiguity about your wishes. However, you shouldn’t feel pressured to make financial decisions that are concerning to you.

Exercising caution when considering transfer of or access to assets

If you are thinking of transferring assets to family members, it is essential to exercise caution.

What to do if you suspect someone is being abused

If you notice changes in a loved one or suspect abuse, it’s okay to ask questions. Take any concerns they have seriously. Take their concerns seriously—older people are more likely to downplay abuse than exaggerate it.

Offer access to support services, but avoid taking over and let the person make their own decisions.

Remember to keep checking in with the person regularly. If that’s not possible, arrange someone else who can.

Always remember to contact 000 if you believe a person is in serious or immediate danger.

By recognising the signs of elder abuse you can stop yourself or your loved ones from falling victim.

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Article References

Australian Institute Of Health And Welfare (28 February 2025) ‘Family, domestic and sexual violence ’, Australian Institute Of Health And Welfare, accessed 13 March 2025.

Seniors Online Victoria (n.d) ‘Preventing elder abuse – the top tips’, Seniors Online Victoria, accessed 13 March 2025.

Seniors Rights (n.d) ‘Concerned About An Older Person? A GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING ELDER ABUSE FOR FRIENDS, FAMILY AND CONCERNED OTHERS ’, Seniors Rights, accessed 13 March 2025.